You definitely hit the nail on the head that's for sure!SNIP
I wish I had done a costing before I had come here, or at least visited, but I don't have that much life experience (I'm only in my early 30's) so a lot of my mistakes were made because of naivety/immaturity, but what I do take away from it is it was a great learning experience and has taught both my wife and I a LOT. In my defense every time I would ask my cousins something they would assure me everything is milk and honey here I will love it. When I actually got to the UK (I came before my wife and son) my cousin couldn't believe the cost of houses and kept on saying they are overcharging I must look elsewhere, but the same as your folks in Aus, they are so far removed from the reality of what it is like if you just arrive in the country with nothing. Another huge mistake I made was not watching local UK news, I relied completely on the utopia I was "sold" by my cousins.
For example I met a guy at the gym who does bricklaying and he is earning £45000 a year, another buddy who does painting as a one man band company is making over £50k a year. And this is not even to mention the variable of AI in the years to come...it's already removed lower tier white collar jobs like book keeping etc, how long till it replaces broader STEM professions that people think are safe. I don't know how it is in SA at the moment but if you want anything done you need to book weeks and sometimes MONTHS in advance because the tradesman are just so busy. Makes me think of this silly South Park episode I watched a while back where all the skilled profession workers were homeless and looking for work and the handy-men were driving limo's and wearing gold chains, it's satire but pretty true if one looks at the grand scheme of where the western world is going.
One buddy I made from Zimbabwe who also moved over around the same time as me, his wife and him also went over with the expectation they could do well here and send money home to Zim, now they are just scraping through every month and he said his quality of life has gone down several tiers since getting to the UK, but because he resigned in Harare where he was earning pretty decent in USD and gave up everything there, even though they want to return too, they are unable to, my heart goes out to them because they stuck in a country they don't like, just surviving and can't find a way home because of the cost of living.
And this is not counting the cost of citizenship...just for my wife, myself and my son it would've cost R500k+ for residency and citizenship, and they keep increasing it each year...
I do tend to agree about what you said about the riots, what we have experienced here (we were about 20km away from some of the riots) although it didn't affect us directly, it is still unnerving. The feeling on the ground is really just one of unease, uncertainty and dissatisfaction and I will say today that it will boil over far worse than it did, and this is not in the distant future either, it's a boiling pot that is going to overflow soon. Rather the devil you know than the devil you don't as the saying goes.
It does have it's positives though, ppl drive amazingly well compared to SA, infrastructure sort of works, courtesy is ingrained in them, people are very polite but not warm though, and it's safe and whatnot, but no way are these few things worth staying here for.