Honestly, even proof of income is insulting, but ok, fine if you're not a previous ferrari/mclaren/lambo customer they have some right for you not to be wasting their time. On an X3???
Guys I have never been declined a test drive at Ferrari Porsche or Lamborghini, nor asked about my income. If anything they try to encourage you to drive something. I often show up looking like a peasant (Granted showing up in a nice-ish car I guess). Ferrari will even encourage you to drive something like a 296 if you've gone in to buy a car half the price. Different model of selling (they know once you're in, you'll likely find ways to get other things later).
Porsche is similar. They have their own quirks but will always try their best to get you to experience something. That's what they are selling ultimately - if you rely on a spec sheet you will never buy a Porsche or Ferrari. Once you sit in it and feel it/smell it etc your heart response kicks in.
This thread from the start has been completely wild because this is how brands kill enthusiasm. The worst for me has been Mercedes where they assume that they have nothing in your price range (when I have gone CLS63 and E63S shopping in the past and ended up with M5s both times). This is very much a dealer driven thing since (as I've said before) the AMG team that takes us out every year to experience all their cars at eg Gerotek or Zwartkops, is absolutely next level (BMW can learn alot from them). I even joked BMW needs their AMG experience team and Merc needs to recruit BMW Sales people LOL.
The fact that BMW is treating people this way is very disappointing.
I will say the experience I had in December was not amazing vs the last 10 years. The reason I am still in my F90 now (which I am, in hindsight, grateful for) is because they dragged their heels on giving me a trade value (I was actually happy with the trade value) and then I had to chase for info on the cars I was interested in plus ultimately they didn't find me the M8 that I had actually wanted. I have yet to hear back on any M8 since. Maybe I am far down a list or long forgotten? I've sent people to the same guys and they bought X3s and other small cars - maybe that's what they get incentivised on these days? I dunno.
I suppose they have too many fish jumping into the boat now that Audi/Merc have shot themselves in the foot so many times? Unlike Ferrari/Lambo/Porsche, these are guys that have my whole financial history/car history available to them and know very well they could be selling me anything sitting on the floor, new or used.
Now that the momentum to buy something has gone and I am in the (as I say) "Do Nothing" mode, I have zero need or appetite to actually shop at BMW in future. A dangerous position for them surely if a multiple M car owning person has turned from a hot lead to stone cold? How many more of me are there?
I am not sure I even care about paying the premium for a car being froma dealer and in warranty/plan anymore at this point, considering how they address issues (the same thing that put me off Merc when we had the w205)
I feel like there is a price to all of this that they will be forced to pay later...